Strengthen your Inner Self to Shift Away from Manipulation & Subtle Control
- sregen
- May 12
- 2 min read
How easy would it be for me to mould you into what I want you to be ?
Is your Inner Self fragile?
How would I know ?
Are you able to give an opinion freely?
Are you able to list your preferences?
If someone asks you, what do you want to do, are you able to give an answer ?
Do you like to please people over yourself ?
Do you find it hard to relax alone?
Is it easier for you to be performing a role (for someone), is it easier for you to be functioning in a bigger organisation ? Does it feel more comfortable when you are told what to do?
If the answer to most of these questions is yes, then it is possible that your autonomy of Self is low, and this could indicate how other people / organisations / systems could see you - your Inner Self - just like a soft malleable ball of plasticine, which could be squashed down (removing any shapes / traces of You), and then completely remoulded it into something that they want / need.
The reliable employee.
A ‘good citizen’ in a country that needs your labour.
The human ‘piece of equipment’ used in a high functioning organisation.
The good friend, the dutiful child, the one who you can always rely on.
The doting husband.
The submissive child.
The religious follower.
If these are traits that you - in your full power - want and desire, then there is no cause to seek any other way of being.
If you feel you have been moulded, shaped, constructed, to be something to someone - other than who you truly are - then you may feel anxious, stressed, or ill, for as long as you stay in that situation; for as long as you remain under the power, the subtle control, of that someone or that organisation who or which seeks to gain something from you.
Will they ever know - or want to know - who you really are.
With awareness we can notice the effects of something outside of ourselves which has tried to minimise / quiet or train us out of being ourselves, or which has even disallowed us to learn who we really are.
At this point we can begin re-establishing links with our true inner-most Selves, and begin to build or re-build from the very smallest molecule, to the strongest energetic and physical entities that we can be.
Energy work can help us in this journey, alongside traditional methods of care, therapy and recovery.
If you would like to know more, or if you would like to enquire about an Energy Healing Session please email me at info@sittingpeacock.com




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